This week, we are looking at the English ambassador, poet and perhaps lover of Anne Boleyn, Thomas Wyatt. Many of his poems are in fact love poems, with sombre tones. But as I am rather tired today, I feel like I would prefer something more upbeat. Unfortunately, it seems Wyatt does not write in a happy mode, so I shall have to be content with semi-wollowing, as in:
The careful lover complaineth, the happy lover counselleth
The careful lover complaineth, the happy lover counselleth
AH! Robin! | |
Joly Robin! | |
Tell me how thy Leman doth? | |
And thou shalt know of mine. | |
‘My Lady is unkind, perdie!’ | 5 |
Alack, why is she so! | |
‘She loveth an other better than me, | |
And yet she will say, no.’ | |
RESPONSE.
I find no such doubleness; | |
I find women true. | 10 |
My lady loveth me doubtless, | |
And will change for no new. | |
LE PLAINTIF.
Thou art happy while that doth last, | |
But I say as I find; | |
That woman’s love is but a blast, | 15 |
And turneth like the wind. | |
RESPONSE.
But if thou wilt avoid thy harm, | |
Learn this lesson of me; | |
At others fires thyself to warm, | |
And let them warm with thee. | 20 |
LE PLAINTIF.
Such folks shall take no harm by love, | |
That can abide their turn; | |
But I, alas, can no way prove | |
In love, but lack, and mourn. |
So, I managed to find some happiness in this poem, although it ends on the complaints rather than happy advice. Most of Wyatt's poems do include the message that women are unfaithful or unloving. This is the only one I have found where he even lets the opposite opinion be voiced, that women are 'true'. Even then, the plaintif says that that will not 'last'.
I am trying to devise what lines 19-20 are trying to convey. Perhaps it is circumlocution for 'just listen to the advice of others and give advice back'. If it had been said by the plaintif, I would have said it were a more liberal view of giving up on monogamy, or maybe even wishing for a stronger relationship. But as the counsellor says it, it might be an encouragement of faith, to act more warmly towards his lover, so she will feel warmer towards him. Perhaps he should not question her about her fidelity, instead making her so comfortable and warm that she will not want to be with anyone else.
This interpretation would make sense with the final line; he cannot 'prove' her fidelity and so he remains sad in the lack of knowledge. He wishes he could be like others and ignore jealousy but he acknowledges that he is not of this 'folk', perhaps an envious, pejorative term. If only it could have ended on the 'joly robin' as it began.